11/21/2023 0 Comments Sip n see![]() Ask if you can send pictures of baby on a digital frame and she can have the sip and see with pictures. ![]() Let MIL know that depending on vaccines (including COVID for attendees) and what's going around, you MAY reschedule for Christmastime, but there's no guarantees. Your baby's health comes before everyone else's feelings. That being said (and I'm a new grandma) I would do as u/redfancydress said and explain that, after talking to your pediatrician (whether you do or not) that the baby will not be at the sip and see due to RSV, bronchitis and pneumonia going around (my 6 month old great nephew just spent 5 days in the hospital with all three, and my niece is very careful who he is around). If you go, you can baby carry while they eat and drink. It's mainly for friends and family that weren't able to make a baby shower. Sip and Sees are a big thing her in South Texas. Sorry, I think it came across as sort of ignorant or even prejudice! It’s been a hot topic for a couple weeks now.Įdit: I shouldn’t have included the race call out! I thought it was primarily a white culture event. So I’m trying to see her side, and I do, but I think she’s failing to trying to understand my perspective. With that said, she’s trying to cram so much into this visit. My husband and I are also planning on retiring in the military so visitation for the next 12 years will be.not frequent. but I don’t know if I’m just being an overprotective momma bear.ītw we won’t be visiting again until Christmas so he’ll be nearly 1. Right? All glory to the health field btw, just a little cautious. That means they’re exposed to so much more. It would be different if it were a mere family gathering but these are strangers who all work in a health clinic with MIL. Just understand) that I’ve never met and would otherwise have never met, will be drinking alcohol and passing around my unvaccinated baby like he’s a trophy? I’m just confused because with RSV, Covid, and flu running amuck, I don’t understand the appeal. From what I understand, a bunch of white women (I’m also part white so no hate, but there’s a certain sense of entitlement that comes from “white women”. ![]() I didn’t know what that was so I had to look it up. Now my MIL has been talking about a sip and see. I plan on keeping him strapped to my or my husbands body the entire time for that reason. We’re driving home next week and our baby won’t have his 2 month shots. So my husband and I live across the country from our families, due to work. I’ve made a previous post about MIL being.a lot.and she’s still a lot but she finally decided to apologize to me personally so I’m giving her a bit of slack. I understand that this subreddit is primarily for talking about terrible MIL’s, which mine is complete trash, but I just wanted to ask for an honest opinion.
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